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February 6, 2009

Dating Tips for Gays

Filed under: Articles — admin @ 4:46 pm

There is a common perception that gays do not go on dates, they just move forward from one association to a new one. While there exists little truth to every stereotype, do not be frightened that just for the reason that you told everyone that you are a gay, you are going to get a different roommate following week.

How can I meet another gay?

As a sticker on a car bumper often says, “We’re everywhere!” But gays are inclined to gather together in definite locations.

Gay and Gay bars: If you are more than 21, this would be one of the most understandable places to try to meet with somebody. Some of the men may find partners in the bars, other might find the atmosphere to be annoying and superficial and they might find it hard to get to know somebody closely. And there is always the alcohol factor which can change your ruling. I suggest that you go to a bar with some friends and check out the scene, to see if you find it comfortable enough or not. Bar is a good place for dating gay

What is the proper way to approach somebody?

If you are in a party or a club and you find someone attractive, give him a little glance and see if he notices you and make some contact with the eyes. If he does make some eye contact, then move towards him. Have a proper introduction. Please do not use an unoriginal pickup line. Ask him if he likes to dance or have a game of pool. Invite him for a drink. Tell him that you are single and if he’s one too. Then get a phone number and make your day ;-)

February 5, 2009

How to make gay dating a good experience?

Filed under: Articles — admin @ 5:16 pm

Dating itself is a delicate art and it gets even more complex when you are a homosexual, as you don’t really know what to expect from the other person and how to asses them. So here is an article with tips on what to look for when you are gay dating. First thing is not to form a pre conceived notion of what you are going to find. High and unrealistic expectations often result in disappointed.

The key always is that if you like each other or not. You cannot get anybody perfect; just make sure the good things outweigh the bad ones so they can be ignored. In any relationship compromise from both sides is the key. So be sure that you are willing to chip in your bit and the other lady as well will try utmost to make the relationship work. Be completely honest to your date. Don’t try to show off as that might impress him the first time but if you are looking for a long term relationship it will bring problems in the future. Observe your date’s body language. If you are shrewd enough that can tell you all you want to know of a person. Be frank and ask your date to be frank and honest too.

This will help you to understand more and more about the person you are dating and will help you in deciding if he is the one. Don’t rush things even if you are not looking for serious relationships don’t take anyone to the bed on the first date. Be slow so that you can figure out about everything that might happen and you take precautions before something might happen.

February 4, 2009

About Gay-ism

Filed under: Articles — admin @ 1:52 pm

The concept of homosexuality is increasingly being accepted and people are out in search for suitable gay partners. There are a number of sites out there which provide dating gay service. Online gay dating is becoming an increasingly accepted concept and helps people to find themselves nice dates and nice boys. There are many sites out there from where you can find and meet with people that live close to you. So then next time you want to date with a guy, do not look for a club, go to online websites, and they will make your day ;-)

January 24, 2009

Gay online dating and live cams debate

Filed under: Articles — admin @ 3:45 pm

Online dating and live chat  is rapidly losing it’s stigma as being just for “losers” or “lunatics.” It’s actually become an accepted, and for gay and lesbians, desirable way to meet people.

As a result, lots of gay and lesbian online dating sites have popped up. And believe it or not, this is a good thing for us. Why?

As a gay or lesbian person, it’s not easy to meet people in what society calls “traditional” ways. I mean, “gaydar” will only get you so far. And, if it’s off, it could get you slapped across the face, or worse.

Gays and lesbians have “traditionally” stuck to gay bars to meet people. This is because we’re safe there. Chances are, anyone you meet will be gay, and if they’re not, well, they’re in a gay bar so they’ll be good-natured about it if they get hit on.

But, what about those who don’t drink? Or don’t like to frequent such establishments? Or are simply not old enough yet to get into a bar? That’s where the online dating sites come in.

As well as being a good way to meet gay and lesbians, online dating sites have a few advantages over the bars.

* You won’t forget who they are when they call you the next day
* You won’t wake up and experience “coyote ugly.”
* You can actually get to know a person and decide if they’re worth getting to know before you waste a lot of time and money dating them
These gay and lesbian online dating sites are almost always user-friendly, meaning they’re easy to use. And, some of the better ones are offering personality tests to match you up with people that you may not have come across on a normal search.

So, take a great picture of yourself and upload it to your computer, pick an online dating site, fill out your profile, and you’re good to go.

A word to the wise: there are free online dating sites available, but the old adage has never been truer, “you get what you pay for.” Free sites attract spammers, people trying to sell something, and those who are being less than honest for one reason or another.

As you’re choosing your site, think of it this way. The small fee that you’ll be charged is probably less than you’d spend in one night at the bar. Believe me, it’s worth it.

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